Wisdom Corner: “The hardest thing on this earth is to be a man!”

Author: Prof.Edgar Ng’oma ~Philosopher & Distinguished Good Governance Fellow

I went deep in thoughts and interogated my conscious to find out a lot of things concerning me, man , how I have transformed to what I am now looking from where I am coming from. Day by day life is becoming unbearable and the hustle seems to have heitained and below here I have outlined the following as man’s indulgence ; because life is so hard for man this is why?….

● prisons have plenty of men
● rehab centers have many of them
● mental hospitals have many of them.
● many men go early to their graves leaving their wives behind.

99% of modern women adult and girl child do not understand men. I am writing ✍️ this episode as a very experienced husband, male and father to many of more than the 13 children of Jacob (Israel ).

Before the introduction of divisive and retrogressive gender equality which has caused more pain to mostly male gender today men suffered the most to literally fend for the family which is the right thing to do , men must hustle to provide for the house hold. Among the many pressing issues that men have to attend are obvious to all grown ups;

● They are pressured to put food on the table
● Provide shelter for his household
● provide the family with descent clothing.
4. Educate the family
5. Keep the family healthy by providing health insurance policy once the family members fall sick
6. Defend and protect the family.
7. Provide discipline, guidance, instruction and leadership to the family.
8. He is the one providing gratification, fulfillment and protection to the family.

A man in the equation of life stand at the top and he is critical to the best welfare of the family, but then, the confusion is women who put certain men especially the Kabal or elitist who control the world who these women I strongly believe they put under their under petticoat government to agree to introduce a very foolish philosophy of gender equality in the world when it is so clear we men can not be equal to women.

Surely physiologically it is not attainable for a man to wait for a woman to be in a mood inorder for him to enjoy conjugal rights in a matrimonial bedroom!

Once she says she is not in a mood then when you force yourself on her you could get arrested for loving your own wife??. Were the parliamentarians who passed such a law bewitched or what?

Was it a Parliament of only women or all men were under petticoat government and were threatened by their wives of a conjugal right boycott if they did not pass the bill into law or what really happened?

Because I don’t understand that real men who understand what to be a man means could pass laws that have caused so much pain to many marriages.

Men are not working because women got most jobs. In the military and security wings which was mostly male gender jobs now women have taken over.

Do your own investigation and ask couples whose wives have superior jobs and their couples have inferior jobs, and sometimes some of these male couples do not even have any form of employment, ooh ! how such men are tormented in their matrimonial bedrooms by of course their wives, it is a very painful sorry experience, that is why some male couples whose emotional intelligence fails them end up taking their own life because of what they are subjected to by their wives.

For those of you who have never experienced this, you will not understand.

Any how, in this modern world, it is very hard and difficult to be a man. Who ever invented and are propagating gender equality are very cruel and heartless people to say the least, I submit.

Author: Prof. Edgar Ng’oma ~Philosopher & Distinguished Good Governance Fellow